I say this as a concession, not as a command  (1 Corinthians 7:6).

So there’s a little controversy over this verse.

Specifically, what is the “this”that Paul is referring to?

Is he talking about his last statement, in which he tells couples that they can be apart for a time, but then must come back together? Or is he referring to the whole getting married part? There’s a big difference.  You see, his next words (spoiler alert) will be that Paul wishes everyone were single, so that they could focus on serving God. 

The clear and obvious answer to the question is…I don’t know. The residents of Bible Commentary Land are divided on this one. But this seems to be a moment in which Paul is acknowledging that sometimes times are tough, and the world is crazy, and it’s difficult to know what God wants you to do. In such a time you pray, you employ what wisdom and common sense you have, and you make the decisions that you think will best honor God and advance your own life.

I’m so glad this verse is here. I’m so glad that God understands that we will not always know what is best, that sometimes we fumble around trying to get it right.

Trust God, Beloved. If your heart is for him, his grace will be for you.

Happy Thursday